Hooking up with a Lady is not as difficult as it might seem, there are things that ought to and ought not to be done, here are some tips if you are
Flirting with Girls in Person
1 Make eye contact and smile at a girl you like to get her attention. When you see a girl who interests you, look her in the eyes and hold her gaze for 2-3 seconds. While you’re making eye contact, flash her a big grin to let her know you’re interested in her.
If she smiles back, go over and talk to her. If she looks away or frowns, go on to the next girl who you find attractive.
2 Say “hello” to open a conversation. Start off a conversation with her by just saying “Hi.” If she greets you back, make small talk and ask her basic questions about herself. Keep talking to her as long as she seems interested in having a conversation.
Say something like, “Hey, I couldn’t help but notice you from across the room,” “Hi! Can I get your advice on what to order?” or “Hey, I’m Todd. How’s it going?” If a girl isn’t looking at you or seems uninterested in talking, she’s probably not going to want to hookup with you. It’s best to start looking for someone else who might be more into it.
3 Touch her lightly on her arm, shoulder, or back while talking to her. Touching is a great way to flirt. As you talk to her, make first contact by touching her forearm or shoulder. If she seems comfortable with the touch, try touching her again. This shows her you’re interested in her without you having to tell her.
If she pulls away, it’s likely that she’s not interested in sex at the moment. That’s totally okay! Say something like, “It’s been great getting to know you, but I need to get back to my friend,” or “It was nice meeting you, but I’ll let you get back to your night.” Then, start looking for another girl.
4 Watch for signs she may be interested in you. Notice if she’s smiling a lot and has nervous body language, such as fidgeting, shifting around, and twirling her hair. Additionally, consider how often she touches you, like brushing your arm or leaning against you. If she’s into you, she’ll likely act giddy and will probably find reasons to touch you.
] If she’s acting nervous and she’s frowning, it’s more likely that she’s not interested. It’s best to give her space and focus on finding someone else.
5 Be yourself when you’re talking to her. You really want to impress this girl, so it’s understandable that you’d want to use a pick-up line or pretend to be someone you’re not. However, most girls find this to be a big turn-off. You’re more likely to find a girl who’s interested in having sex with you if you let her get to know you. Just talk to her about you’re interests and what you’re doing with your life.
For instance, don’t come on hard with something like, “I can make you feel so good, baby.” She probably won’t like that. Instead, share something about yourself, such as, “I don’t know about you, but I really needed happy hour today. Can you believe it’s only Tuesday?”
6;Connect with her by getting to know her better. While you might not be interested in having a relationship with this girl, she’s more likely to hook up with you if she feels like you care about her. Ask her questions about what she likes to do, and really listen to what she has to say. You don’t need to get her whole life story, but make sure you know something about her.
You might ask questions like, “What do you do in your free time?” “What are your career goals?” or “What bands are you listening to now?”
7 Compliment her appearance so she feels good about herself. Girls are more interested in sex when they’re feeling confident about their looks. Additionally, giving compliments shows a girl you’re interested in her. Point out 1 or 2 things that you like about her looks to make her feel special.
Say something like, “You have a really beautiful smile,” or “You look stunning in this dress.”
8;Wait until she feels comfortable before bringing up sex. You might have sex on your mind, but it’s best to keep that to yourself. Talking about sex too early in a conversation is usually a big turn off. Keep your conversation casual until she’s talking freely and seems comfortable with you.
Some signs she’s comfortable with you might include eye contact, smiling, laughing, touching you, and sharing intimate details about herself. 9 Be honest that your intentions are to have a hook up. It’s unfair to mislead a girl into thinking you’re interested in a relationship if you really just want to hook up with her. Tell the girl directly that you’re not interested in something serious right now. Explain that you’re hoping to meet someone who wants to have some casual fun with you. This way, you’re both on the same page. If she’s not interested in hooking up, thank her for her time and move on. You might say, “I totally understand. Thank you for sharing a drink with me.”
10 Don’t get pushy if she’s not interested. You may be tempted to keep flirting with her in the hopes that she’ll change her mind, but it’s important to respect her wishes. If she is pulling away from you, tells you she’s not interested in something casual, or directly tells you to leave her alone, stop pursuing her and turn your attention to someone else. Otherwise, she may feel like you’re harassing her.
If a girl tells you “no,” don’t try to change her mind. She has a right to decide what she’s comfortable with when it comes to dating and hooking up.
11 Tell her that you’d like to be alone with her. When you’re sure things are going well, it’s time to bring up the idea of a hookup. The best way to do this is to suggest you go somewhere you can be alone. This will signal to her that you’re interested in things getting more physical. If she’s interested, she’ll likely agree to go somewhere you can be alone.
Say something like, “Would you be interested in continuing this conversation somewhere more private?” or “Can I interest you in a quieter drink at my apartment?”