Once I knew a couple they were really cute together did everything together but finally as fate would happen they broke up. Its funny how the person you love and adore so much will be the person who you might hate after. Don’t feel bad and nothing is wrong with you. A lot of people have been in your shoes before. At first looks like the person is heaven on earth next you can’t stand each other. Here are five keys to know if he/ she is right for you.
Firstly, do you guys communicate well. OK this doesn’t mean you would not quarrel, have arguments. But do you listen to her and you reverse. You have to check if you are in sync in communicating. You would always have problems if you do not communicate.
Secondly, how do you settle you arguments. Yes the right person for you will have to sit tight to settle. You both must listen to each other feel each others pain. Not make things work or difficult. As a lady you’ll love a guy that can listen yeah its good. Accept a guy that fits your personality. It looks difficult bit you but deep down man or woman you know what you want.
Thirdly, do you both have same values and goals. Its not just all about the butterflies, currents and all the mushy stuff. What drives her is it what drives you. What’s both of you aim in life. He/she is not right if you’re not aligned to a bigger aim. Sorry to burst your bubble but its damn important.
Fourthly anger issues. This might go way over the top but its necessary how does she/he act when they are angry. During courtship it’s important you don’t get carried away by love.
“Love they say blinds the eyes”
Winks* can you just lift your eye lids slowly and look at their reactions thank you! Its definitely reason to look out for.
Lastly, does he/she know how to save. Read this part very well. A marriageable person must learn the art of saving. Yes and let me also chip this in they must be teachable. If you don’t like it or you like something teach them. Its a learning process take deep breathes.
As you find or wait for your right person keep in mind that there’s someone out there for you!