How To Repair The Little Things In Your Relationship (So They Don’t Become Big Things)

Happy couples deal with the little things early and often. By John Grey, Ph.D All couples argue. Happy couples argue well. They have strategies for dealing with their inevitable disagreements, and they process their feelings so they don’t bottle up.  We know from Dr. Gottman’s research that both partners in a relationship are emotionally available only nine…

16 psychological tricks to make people like you immediately

1. Copy the person you're with This strategy is called mirroring, and involves subtly mimicking another person's behavior. When talking to someone, try copying their body language, gestures, and facial expressions. In 1999, New York University researchers documented the "chameleon effect," which occurs when people unconsciously mimic each other's behavior. That mimicry facilitates liking. Researchers had…