Many men see themselves as sexual experts, she
says, but such men can’t even properly satisfy
their wives/girlfriends asthe women would like,
thereby invalidating their bloated opinions about
their sexual abilities.
This can be traced to the following five mistakes:
1. Thinking sex is all about strength**
Men need to realise that they are not hammers,
and that the female sexual organ is not just a hole,
the vlogger says.
She also adds that the act if sex requires more
finesse than most men seem to be aware of.
“I know we [women] want it a bit rough
sometimes, but if all your [thoughts] whenever you
think about sex is [rough pounding], please have a
rethink, ” she adds.
2. Going on and on**
More men need to realise that pleasing a woman is
not about going on ceaselessly with the sex.
Going on for 50 minutes or 1 hour does not prove
that you are ‘The Man’ and when prolonged unduly,
sex could really get exhausting.
Sex is meant to enjoyable, and to achieve that,
partners do not need to go on a marathon.
So the idea that you need to go on and on to satisfy
the woman needs to be stopped.
3. Neglecting other body parts**
When men choose to make sex all about the
vagina, there’s only an amount of pleasure they
can give their wives or girlfriends.
The whole process of sex is meant to be a thing of
totality and wholeness. Your wife’s most sensitive
part needs to be discovered and paid attention to,
but not at the expense of other body parts.
Spread your kisses, touches and caresses and
see how pleasing it’ll be for your bae.
4. Too many positions in quick succession**
“When you keep flipping your [partner] in all
directions, it becomes distracting.” Uwanma says.
Switching positions during sex has to be a mutual
thing, and even if men love to take charge, it’d be
great to let a partner enjoy and get relaxed with
one position before switching over to yet another
5. Ending immediately after your orgasm
Thinking that sex ends immediately after you cum
is like the biggest mistake on this list, because it is
the height of selfishness.
Assuming that your orgasm is the point of the
whole process is very annoying and every woman
would find it uncaring and unfair.