If you desire to have the magic of sex undisrupted
in your relationship, though, the 10 steps below will
be really useful to you.
1. Tailor your moves for your partner••
Sadly this is still an issue especially with men. It
does not mean women are not guilty too, though.
Learn the sexual things that thrill your partner and
stick to them.
2. Foreplay isn’t the same for men and women••
For women, foreplay begins long before the
physical touching and groping. Deep conversations
and even teasing words makes women relax and
prepared while men often need contact to be
3. Women are aroused slower than men••
Once again it is a matter of physical configuration
that men need to understand. A woman might not
be quick to the horny state the way a man would.
Understanding this will help you become more
patient and more sensitive to her needs.
4. Different strokes [Quite literally]••
The bedroom moves you pulled on your ex is not
guaranteed to get your next moaning and groaning
as the previous one did.
Individuals often like different things from one
another. Learn differences- some like it deep,
some like it not.
Again, different strokes for different folks.
5. Be proactive••
This applies majorly to women. You don’t always
have to wait for a move to be made on you in a
relationship. Sometimes [or more frequently] you
need to reach out and get what you want.
6. Be creative••
So it worked yesterday, and the day before… it will
most likely get boring and repetitive today or
tomorrow. So, always look for variations and
newer experiences. Always.
7. Tension and tension release••
Sex is majorly about building and easing tension.
So, learn to lay off sometimes and have the
tension build to a significant height before easing it.
This will add an edge to your sex life, make you
more intimate and take you and your partner to
newer heights. [Wink]
Those are meant not just for the lips. Explore.
Discuss fantasies and consider the possibility of
making them come alive. In so far as they do not
pose health scares and are not too outrageous,
they are permissible.
What matters though, is consent and agreement. If
you both are cool with it, nothing is stopping you.
10. Play fun games••
Card games that require you losing your clothes
one after another, leaving hidden sexy messages
for one another, writing horny notes on mirrors for
the other to find, wearing sexy lingerie and asking
your man to get them off while he has a blindfold
on… the list goes on and on.
These games add an extra edge and break the
routine. You surely will benefit from trying them